A Day In The Life Of A Janis Spindel Intern

When I scheduled my interview with Janis Spindel, it was convenient to meet in the Hamptons. Ironically, we only lived 10 minutes away from each other so she graciously invited me over to her home to meet. Not knowing the protocol on how to dress for an interview with a matchmaker / home visit, I decided rather over dress than under, so I wore a blazer. To my surprise, when I walked into Janis’s office, she greeted me wearing a bright pink Victoria Secret jumpsuit. It was that exact moment, I knew this was going to be an experience nothing like before. Instantly we hit it off, and I started interning for her after the New Year.

Multi-tasking is an extremely important skill to have in the workplace—Janis is able to do 12 things at once. I learned this very quickly. One minute she is a loving and caring mother to her daughters, the next she’s baby-talking to her two adorable puppies, then she’ll be scheduling lunch with clients, and within minutes be camera ready for a Skype interview. It is great seeing her in action.

And then of course, you have her right hand woman, Ashley Kaylor. Immediately deserves praise for keeping up with Janis’s beyond hectic schedule. She was always there to help if you had any questions, super outgoing, and just a life-loving, hysterical person to work alongside.

Being a soon-to be college graduate, whenever prospective employers look at my resume, once they see I worked for a matchmaker they instantaneously have a million questions. There’s so much to talk about since there was so much to do. One night you’ll be helping to sign people in for events, performing outreach services (via e-mail or telephone), writing, and/or helping maintain her proprietary database.

The best part is you get to form your own personal relationships with the people that run the company. It is not every day that an intern can say they joked around with the CEO of a company!

Definitely an experience of a life-time and no matter what industry you want to work in, you learn skills that are necessary. Never know what to expect next, and there is no question that I am glad I was able to be an intern, and continue part-time while at school.

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4 Fun Places To Meet Men, and The Lines To Hook Them!

The myth of the pick-up line is that its cheesy, old, and it doesn’t work.  This couldn’t be further from the truth!  The real secret behind any pick-up attempt is honestlyconfidence.  If a handsome, charismatic man approached you, and said – with a totally straight face – “I lost my number, can I have yours?”… would you really say no?  We didn’t think so either!  The point is, sometimes we just need an excuse to approach that hottie. But where do you even begin?  Try one of these lines next time you’re scrambling!!

THE LOCALE: The coffee shop:
WHY HERE?: The local café is a great place to meet guys.  You’re already in an excellent location, and should you stumble in with some free time on your hands, you could transition your first meeting into a first date!  Make eye contact with the guy in front or behind you in line, and make an excuse to start a conversation.
THE LINE: “My regular order is getting a little old… What are you planning on having?”  Break the ice, and show that you’re ready to try something new.  Maybe you two can both share a sweet treat!

THE LOCALE: The gym
WHY HERE?: Scientists have conducted studies on the attraction theories behind human scent, and sweat is a huge aphrodisiac, believe it or not!  Furthermore, the men you’re likely to attract here will be fit, healthy, and goal-oriented – all excellent traits in a potential partner.
THE LINE: “Damn, I thought my routine was working, but clearly you know something I don’t.. Got any tips for me?  I’m trying to tone my __________.”  This gives him an opportunity to show off – something most men love to do – while showcasing your killer physique.  Get it, girl!

THE LOCALE: The subway
WHY HERE?: The subway has no cell or internet service, it’s impossible to get any work done, and you’re already in close corners.  It’s basically a moving nightclub, minus the fruity drinks.  Take this opportunity to make a new friend.
THE LINE: This is almost more of a maneuver, but casually bump into him.  Not in a weird way, but just enough to warrant a quick apology.  “Sorry! I should’ve at least bought you dinner first!”  Segue into casual conversation, and then use that first line as a bookmark, a way to get right back to your original intention.  “So about that dinner I owe you…”  Perfect!

THE LOCALE: A bar
WHY HERE?: Yup, the most cliché place in all the land to meet a man, but you can do it!  Keeping in mind that not many storybook romances begin in seedy divebars, your story could always be the exception.  People in bars are there to meet people, or else they would’ve just gone to the liquor store.
THE LINE: “This is already a cliché situation, so let’s change it.  Can I buy you a drink?”  Any man, no matter how rich or how poor, loves a woman who isn’t afraid to spend a little bit of cash once in a while.  You don’t have to buy every dinner, but reach for the wallet on occasion and he’ll love you for it.  This also shows your initiative, and the acknowledgement of the stereotypical situation you two find yourselves in will quickly lighten the mood.

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Matchmakers Sassy Pick Up Lines for the Bold Woman

Read this article to learn some sassy and bold pick-up lines by matchmaker Janis Spindel.

If you are really feeling sassy and want to go for it and make a man sit up and take notice, absolutely recite these pick-up lines to him. My clients have had way too much success with them; it’s not even funny!

1. You are adorable. How come there is no girl next to you?

2. Okay, you are two really good-looking guys—where are the wives or the girlfriends?

3. You’re married? Do you have a single, brother, cousin, father or friend who’s as good-looking as you are?

4. Okay, tall, dark, and really handsome—you must have a girlfriend. Where is she?

With these pick-up lines, keep in my mind that even if the guy is taken, there is a high a probability that he has single friends or relatives. So, don’t give up to soon! Keep talking to him and network. His friend could be the one you’ve been looking forward!
 

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Don’t Be a Dating Desperado

There is nothing more unattractive than dating desperation. Pushiness, aggression, insistence, and weepiness are all signs of a desperate woman and men can sense it from a mile away. Charming, and ladylike women who are engaged in life are never desperate.

Even the way you dress can reek of desperation. If a man can see down your shirt all the way to your navel, then where is the mystery? When you dress like that it says, “look at me, I’m trying way too hard!” Yes, men will stare…but they won’t stop.

If you’re tactic isn’t working, don’t push it – move on. Insinuating yourself into a situation where a man is clearly not interested will only hurt you in the long run. It’s fine to put yourself out there, but always know when it’s appropriate to reel it back in.

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Dating Story – Boyfriend Meets Dad

Not every father is an over-protective, shot-gun-toting lunatic.  But a lot of men seem to think they are.  The truth is, most loving fathers simply want to ensure that their daughters are dating someone who takes care of their little girls; a man who treats her like gold.  While this isn’t crazy, your dad’s method of treating your boyfriend might be. Which of these scary dads do you have?

The General: Tall and intimidating, this father orders around your new boyfriend like a drill sergeant. Calling him by every insult short of “maggot,” your father commands respect and hopes to instill a sense of discipline and inferiority in any man you bring home.

The Interviewer: Gathering his inspiration from Larry King Live, this type of dad fires away question after question, with little time for your poor boyfriend to respond.  What’s his occupation?  What are his intentions with you?  Where do his parents live?  Where does he see himself five years from now?  Your boyfriend might pass out from the sheer pressure of this interrogation.  With no less than five questions per minute, your dad seeks to uncover your new boyfriend’s entire life history.

The Silent Type: He sits and he stares.  Without a word, his eye contact with your boyfriend is unwavering – awkward.  Not much to say about this kind of father.  No one can really tell if he’s expressing his disdain, or simply can’t think of anything to add to the conversation.  Suffice to say, the silent judgment he exudes is enough to scare any man.

The Reminiscer: Your dad can’t help but to sing the praises of your ex-boyfriends. All of them. Recent and old. While you sit there squirming through the awkwardness, your current flame is wondering why he’s never heard any of these names before… any of the 16 names your father won’t stop talking about.  Gross.

The Know It All: When you were really little, you thought your daddy knew everything.  Then as a teenager, you thought he knew nothing.  Now you’re just not sure, as you and your boyfriend sit and listen to him rattling off facts about the most nonsensical subject.  Sure, your father’s degree was education, but he now proclaims to be an expert on the economy, the gas crisis, and the Miami Heat’s defensive strategies.

It’s always going to be a bit of a challenge introducing the parents to the boyfriend, but fathers just want the best for their daughters. Try to be understanding of both sides – your nervous boyfriend, and your protective father – and hope for the best!

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Matchmakers Interns

My Whirlwind Week with Janis
Margaret Quigley

My first few days in New York City were an absolute whirlwind of frenzied activity, exploration of my new neighborhood, and adjustment to a much different pace than what I was used to.  I live on a small farm in Pennsylvania, so Manhattan is definitely a change.  But no crash-course in fast-paced city life could ever have prepared me for Janis Spindel.

Sitting next to Janis and my fellow interns, soon to be best friends, I had no idea what to expect.  She analyzed our strengths, asked what we hoped to get out of our experience, and debriefed us on her upcoming projects.
I like to be kept busy.  I thrive off of a packed schedule.  But very few girls my age have the energy that Janis has.  With a full social calendar, planned months in advance, Janis knows more about clubs, hot spots, and hot guys than any young socialite in the city.  I knew immediately that this internship would benefit me in so many ways: socially, mentally, and emotionally.
As an aspiring dating columnist, Janis’s expertise on all things romantic inspired me beyond words.  I attended a “Dating Destination” party – one of Janis’s hallmark soirees – and I was riveted by her ability to effortlessly glide through the party, introducing and experimenting with different matches.
Furthermore, I sat in on one of Janis’s lectures at the 92nd St. Y.  A fixture for years, Janis is known for her charismatic speaking skills.  Women literally followed her out the door, clamoring for five seconds face-time with the dating expert.  She’s just that powerful.
Janis is the real deal, and my experience so far has been positively eye opening.  I can’t wait to learn more from America’s #1 Matchmaker.

Getting a Taste of Janis’ World
By Alexis Sadoti

When I started my internship with Janis, I had no idea what was in store for me. As I sat around the table the first day with my fellow interns, I just assumed that this would be your typical internship revolving around long days in an office…boy was I wrong. The other night Janis told us to get dressed up because we were heading out for a night on the town. The night started off by her whisking us off to a swanky rooftop bar where the men were 11’s on a scale of 1-10. Watching her in action was an unreal experience. Her confidence level is amazing; she can walk right up to a guy and in an instant she captivates him. Every guy that she spoke to was put under her spell and I found the whole experience fascinating.
When she felt she had exhausted our first destination she ushered us all into a cab and we headed to a popular bar downtown. As we worked the room with Janis, I noticed that once again every time she spoke to a man he was intrigued by her… and us by association. I have never seen a woman with so much charisma and I just hope that her level of self-assurance will rub off on me by the end of my time here. I ended up leaving the venue a little bit after midnight and when I found Janis to say goodbye I found her holding court surrounded by gorgeous men. If that is just one night with the famous matchmaker herself, I can’t even imagine what the rest of the summer holds in store, and I can’t wait to find out.

Internship of a Lifetime
By Veronica Maccia

When I first saw “PR/Event Planning Intern for Matchmaker” on Craig’s List, I laughed and said to my friend sitting at the computer next to me, what does that even mean? What would I even do for a matchmaker? She looked me straight in the eye and said, “Send your resume and cover letter because I bet you this is the internship you’re going to get.”

Low and behold she was absolutely right; Ashley had emailed me less than an hour letter asking for a Skype interview. Here I am 4 months later, sitting in Janis’s office, experiencing what she describes as the “Internship of a Lifetime,” and that is exactly what this internship is. In just 2 weeks, I have learned and experienced more than I could have ever imagined. I’ve gone to events, written blogs and articles, and helped Janis pick up new clients.

Watching Janis in action is one of the most entertaining and shocking things I have ever witnessed. She exudes so much confidence and always gets exactly who and what she wants. Coming out of a long relationship, watching her has helped me build up my confidence and learn how to put myself back out there.

I can only imagine what is in store for the rest of the summer with this upbeat and blunt woman, but I am so excited. It’s not often that you get to talk to your boss about guys and sex.

Summer Learning
by Traci Baydala

I have been interning with Janis and Ashley since March and can describe this opportunity with one word; exciting. Being in the PR industry is something I have been intrigued by since my freshman year of college.  Working here has given me the chance to get my hands dirty in the fast pace event and PR industry. Between all of the events we coordinate and keeping up with our social media, there is always something to do and learn from.

Since joining the team, I have learned how to write up a strong press release, deliver pitch ideas for events we want to hold and manage multiple social media accounts. These are all lessons that I will benefit and carry on to my future endeavors. I am looking forward to this summer and all of the great opportunities I will grow from.

Another aspect of this internship that I thoroughly enjoy is the ability to express my creativity. Any idea or opinion I have about one of the many projects we take on, I am able to actually be a part of the idea and give my thoughts. To me, this is one of the most important characteristics of an internship opportunity. I do not want to be just another face of a company; with Janis and Ashley I have a voice and a great learning opportunity.

Janis Spindel in Action
by Niqui Wigley

There is a stark contrast between what goes on in Janis Spindel’s office and what happens when she’s out in her element. My first week working for Janis was a whirlwind of activity. Everyday, from the moment I would walk in to her office until the second I would leave, us interns were always on our toes, whether it be answering phones or hammering out blogs rendered from Janis’ books.

Despite all the hustle and bustle, the office is akin to a well-oiled machine. No matter how chaotic everything may seem by the end of the day, all our tasks are achieved. As amazing as that always seems, nothing compares to watching Janis “pick up” potential clients. As a person that has never had issues striking up a conversation with random people, Janis takes it to a whole other element. Janis will see her target and approach with unparalleled confidence.

Not only is it fun watching Janis make her move, but its even better to see her target’s face as she walks away. As if struck by lightning, they seem unsure about what just hit them. There is a mixture of shock and awe on their faces with a hint of curiosity as they examine the only evidence of what just happened: Janis’ business card in their hand. Watching that sequence of events will never get tiring and I’m so glad that I have the opportunity to witness it over and over again for the rest of the summer.

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Matchmaker Reports Size Does Matter

How Do You Measure Up

This question never ceases to come up in conversation; whether it is from an overconfident male or a self-conscious female…DOES SIZE MATTER?!

I know a lot of women who think the size of their chest would always be better “super-sized.” Other women obsess over their rear-end. It’s true; some men have a preference of the two sides to a woman and claim they love either or. But does it actually matter in the long run? No. We all know Men Are Visual. More than anything, however, men want women with a good body—plain and simple. If a woman is a size F, but her body is just as big he won’t give her a second look.

And men, not to worry. What’s natural is natural. Of course you will probably not find a woman who says she prefers a less than average size “little friend.” It just depends. It depends on whether or not the guy knows how to use what he has. If you’re little friend is not so little at all, you better know what you are doing. Otherwise, you will never be pleasing anybody. And for the short stacks, have no fear. As long as you make up in pleasure what you lack in size, women won’t even notice.

We can’t help what bodies we were born with. Everyone has something they are insecure about. As long we work with what we’ve got, it really won’t be the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean that matters.

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Online Dating and Matchmaking

The Decline of Online Dating; America’s Top Matchmaker Changes Industry Trend

USA – New York City
November 8, 2011

Online dating sites compete for only 10% market share with a steady decline of subscription revenue due to a short shelf life thereby aggressively chasing the same customers.  Janis Spindel bucks that trend. 

In a bold move, high end and six figure upfront retainer fee Matchmaker opens the doors to the mass market previously only accessible to the rich and exclusive. 

Launching her new online matchmaking site on November 24th, 2011, Spindel offers a free online dating platform with no credit card required to search and contact other members.

She also retains her 20 year successful model of her high end matchmaking platform where members must go through a series of background checks and video profile approvals.

Spindel herself makes the final judgement to allow or decline membership for this exclusive and expensive top tier site.

Spindel feels that not only can she capture a portion of that 10% market share that other online dating sites are competing for, she can also expand to the other 90% of the untapped population.

Her online matchmaking site, www.2lovetoday.com is interactive and rewards those who participate by offering free matches not normally found with other dating sites.

Janis Spindel, America’s top Matchmaker, is blending online dating with traditional Matchmaking all with one click, not to mention a mobile GPS app for the spontaneous member.

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Matchmaker Asks: Man-Scape or Bust

Warning: The following information may be too honest for timid readers.

Let’s be honest, a hairy man is usually a scary man!! We don’t like judging books by their unshaven covers, but in this case it’s better to be safe than sorry. For all of the men out there, here is a subtle tip: MANSCAPING DOES NOT MAKE YOU GAY. In fact, it can most of the time make you that much more sexy. Whether it is your face, your chest, or your lower region, taming your shrubs will be much more attractive.

Women love men. Unless you have a thing for the younger look, having a manly man hold you in his arms is one of the best feelings. However, if the chest you’re lying on feels more like a bear-skinned rug than a hardwood floor, that feeling will vanish. Just as well, kissing could not be any less enjoyable with unshaven cheeks. It’s almost equivalent to brushing your face up against a cozy razor. Eeeww, NO THANK YOU.

The occasional wax, shave, or pluck can only improve the guy’s chance of success with women…especially down there. Keep in mind men, that if the situation were reversed, there would be no way your nose would want to sniff that rose. It goes the same way for women. We can only go by what is pleasing to the eye. And TRUST ME on this one seeing your twig coming out of a bush is just not that hot. Think of it this way, your twig can only grow from a quick trim.

So men, the next time you’re preparing for a night on the town, don’t forget to take a razor, a buzzer, or some wax to any untamed area. And women, if your guy hasn’t shaved and your face looks like you have the chicken pox from kissing him, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT…even if it takes you doing it for him.

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Dating a Shy Guy

Dating a Shy Guy

The Shy Guy
Well, don’t be discouraged ladies. This is not necessarily a negative quality in a man. You can be confident that he’s not going up and talking to other women when you’re not around; he probably won’t be that arrogant and self-centered; and you can bet that his main goal in bed is to keep you happy.

First of all if you are shy yourself there could be an issue. One of you has to have the capacity to break the other out of his/her shell. If not, you’ll find that the life of a hermit can be quite boring. However, more often than not women start dating a shy man because he seems sweet. Fine. BUT make sure you don’t fall into a lull because he feels insecure or uncomfortable going out and meeting people. A sweet guy is great, but a sweet guy who knows how to take control is better.

Tell me ladies, that you wouldn’t want a guy yearning to command your every wish. Sure, great, grand. Let’s be real though, a guy without a backbone is one of the biggest turn offs. Am I right? Of course I am.

So if you can’t handle his inability to go out, have fun, and socially interact with other humans, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Force him, gently of course, to hang out with you at a place other than his couch. Talk to him about subjects he would otherwise feel uncomfortable discussing: sex, family issues, and things he doesn’t like—even about you.

We don’t always want to fix the guys we love, but it is our job to tweak them into the better versions of themselves. Your shy guy is probably a caring cutie just itching to break out and be a confident stud.

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